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57% of Employees Say the Holidays Are the Most Draining Time of Year

New findings show the holiday season amplifies financial stress, burnout, and isolation among employees—challenging organizational leaders to rethink how they approach year-end employee well-being.

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    • Two-thirds of employees feel pressured to overspend during the holidays, and financial strain is a major driver of seasonal stress.

    • Employees struggle to disconnect from work, with more than half checking email or working through time off.

    • Family conflict and loneliness intensify during the holidays, especially for parents and the sandwich generation.

    • After the holidays, 57% of employees struggle to re-engage, and many consider quitting due to burnout.

    • Employers can make a meaningful impact by adjusting expectations, promoting true time off, and elevating mental health support throughout the season.

    The holiday season is often treated as a natural break in the work year—a period when employees rest, recharge, and return with renewed energy. But new survey data from Modern Health suggests a different reality: for many workers, this season has become one of the most destabilizing periods for their mental health.

    This shift carries important implications for how organizations think about year-end culture, workload planning, and support.

    Financial Pressures Are Reshaping the Emotional Landscape of the Holidays

    The survey of 1,000 full-time U.S. employees shows that 66% of employees feel pressure to overspend during the season, and that pressure intensifies for those with caregiving responsibilities—77% of the sandwich generation report the same pressure.

    This isn’t simply about holiday budgeting. It signals a larger trend: financial stress is increasingly intertwined with workforce well-being, especially during moments of peak family and social expectations. Employers focused on year-round well-being strategies cannot ignore the concentrated impact of these seasonal financial demands.

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    Time Off Isn’t Functioning as Recovery for Many Employees

    The modern workplace has evolved, but employees’ ability to disconnect has not kept pace.

    The data reveals:

    • 57% feel obligated to check email while on holiday
    • 51% work through the season to avoid additional personal stress
    • 57% struggle to re-engage afterward
    • 40% have considered quitting because of holiday burnout or returning-to-work dread

    Beyond an erosion of boundaries, this data reflects a broader issue of inadequate recovery cycles within the workforce. When employees cannot meaningfully disconnect, organizations enter the new year with hidden deficits in focus, energy, and morale.

    This is especially relevant for HR and business leaders navigating retention challenges or planning ambitious priorities to start the new year.

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    Family Dynamics and Social Expectations Are Powerful Stressors

    In addition to financial and work pressures, the emotional demands of the season carry weight:

    • 54% expect family conflict will negatively affect their mental health, rising to 66% for parents and 71% for the sandwich generation
    • 52% feel lonelier or more isolated during the holidays
    • Nearly two-thirds feel pressure to appear cheerful even when they’re struggling
    • 53% say this expectation actually worsens their mental health

    Taken together, these findings suggest that the holidays exacerbate existing stressors, particularly for employees with caregiving responsibilities or limited social support. It also underscores that loneliness and emotional overload remain significant, often invisible drivers of workforce strain.

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    A Strategic Moment for Employers

    The end of the year is not simply a cultural marker. For organizations, it can be a structural stress point that can be planned for by putting the right supports in place.

    Based on the data, workplaces have an opportunity to:

    • Adjust expectations around availability during the holidays
    • Normalize true time off and model it at the leadership level
    • Offer flexibility to employees managing complex family or caregiving responsibilities
    • Elevate visibility of mental health resources before, during, and after the season
    • Reinforce an environment where employees do not feel pressure to mask stress or hardship

    “The holidays are meant to be restorative, but for many employees they’ve become a perfect storm of financial worry, work and family pressure, and emotional strain,” said Dr. Jessica Watrous, Chief Clinical Officer at Modern Health. “While this time of year brings joy for many, it can also bring real stress. Even small acts of flexibility and understanding from employers can help ensure everyone feels supported throughout the season.”

    A More Realistic View of the Holiday Experience

    The assumption that the holidays function as an automatic reset button no longer holds for a significant portion of the workforce. The data points to a season often defined by financial pressure, caregiving strain, emotional expectations, and a persistent inability to disconnect from work.

    “Employers can’t eliminate holiday stress,” Watrous added, “but they can support employees in navigating it by creating environments where people feel understood, supported, and able to prioritize their well-being during one of the most emotionally loaded times of the year.” 

    Organizations that understand this and thoughtfully provide support will enter the new year with a workforce better equipped to sustain performance over the long term.

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